TRUE LINGAM HEALING
"A Lingam massage offers a space of sexual being rather than sexual doing". It can be deeply emotional and healing"
"The challenge many men face during a Lingam Massage is to free their mind and to receive pleasure"
To start, "Lingam" is an ancient tantric word that is used to describe "male's sexual organ" and it means "staff of life". In Tantra or Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully viewed and honored, as a "Wand of Light" that hollow out creative energy and pleasure.
A Lingam Massage permits a man to experience a whole other level of pleasure. In my opinion, the beauty of it is that the pleasure is on the both sides: the giver and the receiver.
Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The main goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (prostate) externally, allowing the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to experience in his daily life.
Please note that men need to learn to relax and receive, that is why I solely focus this session on you, not on me. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.
HOW TO PREPARE FOR A LINGAM MASSAGE
The first step to an exquisite lingam massage is a safe and sacred space where the man can allow himself vulnerability, letting himself go, slide into his deepest pleasure. I will explain the precise steps for a perfect lingam session so that you are conscious what will happen with your body before a session is booked.
1- The Right Temperature : Warmth is vital. I can't emphasize this enough. I you are not warm, you will not be able to relax, go into you body or get into the experience. Hot summer times might work different way, warm would have different meaning as "feeling yourself, your inside body, warm enough according to your own necessities".
2-The Right Ambience & Sound:Soft lighting & music (without words)will add to the space. Candles and soft aromatherapy will be fabulous. Smells have to be comfortable for the receiver as we all have different level of sense.
3-The Right Massage Oil: Warm oil feels delicious in any skin but mostly men skin. I normally use organic special oil massage that is non sticky non smelly with high concentration of calming components. As a CMT I have been using this kind of product for more than a decade.
4- The Right Mindset: Compassion and confidence are part of my personality. A man does not need to have an erection to experience pleasure. More than that he does not need to have a full erection to have an orgasm. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate. The result is very expanded sex life.
** This is only a lingam massage as clearly explained. Please choose always the appropriate session for you according to your needs/desires/intentions. I truly adore honest gentlemen.
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